There are people among us or before us that we all look up to. Ones that we have heard about or read about or directly witnessed. The ones that impress us, ones that motivate us and make us want to achieve more and more for ourselves. The ones that figured things out and even there is a fog surround them as much as it surrounds us. Fog of doubt, fear, hesitation..etc. That exists around everybody. But some of us are to see through the fog and reach what's beyond.

Without the map, there is no destination to arrive and if…


There is one particular saying super popular recently about all kinds of relationships that everyone is raving about.

It is, “Communication is the key”. Well, whoever said that is just painted half of the canvas for us really. Communicating is the start at the best for expressing yourself and trying to make the other person understand where you are coming from.

But you know what, no matter how good or effective you communicate, it's as good as how much that person can understand you. Could be very effective or could be a complete waste of time.

Without comprehension of others…


Good intentions are all that we have for our people right? Well, I hope we all do. Even though it all starts with good and care, we might be misunderstood sometimes.

However, All we can conjure depends on how much is capable is the person in front of us can understand or their interpretation… Regardless of that, the best thing we can do for someone is not approaching them just with good intentions. It's something much deeper, requires effort, patience, and empathy.

The Best Thing You Can Do For Someone is,

Discuss their thoughts with them. Doesn't matter if you…


Enthusiasm is the first step when we encounter something or someone we come across. Willing to put additional interest, making sacrifices and willing to take extra steps if its necessary. Enthusiasm is the building block. If the enthusiasm pays off or if we are getting positive reinforcement out of it, Enthusiasm starts to blossom to the Passion. Once the transformation is completed, we can actually observe and realize the change in us. Because when we become passionate, we start to explore more,discover more and experiment more. The process have to be like that, its not open to interpretation. …


An interesting title isn't lt? But What is that mean?

Well…

This question struck me while I was doing yoga the other day. The platform I am following has numerous good Yoga instructors, and I am a regular of 2 of them. Can't really say why. I have been doing their classes while they were less popular and I stuck around. I am kinda like that with my habits you know. If I am into a series, I tend to watch them multiple times, I read and listen to the same celebs and columnists ..etc. You got that the point…


We all have different battles to fight, we all have our questions to solve and we have our own quarrels we are trying to figure. Sometimes we found ourselves getting lost in them while we are trying to solve them. At what cost though? We are losing a lot of energy and time during that process. Trying to make sense out of something doesn't really make sense. It's in our nature in my opinion. Connecting dots, explore something we are not familiar with, satisfy our curiosity, finding answers.

While we are busy trying to find the answers, we have other…


It was hard to find the appropriate title for this article. I wrote down and delete maybe 20 times. In the end, I decided to stick with what came to my mind at first. You know what they say, In a topic it's always good to stick with what comes to your mind first. That saying is also aligning with this topic in a way. I will explain that how a little later.

Making difficult decisions is great in a lot of ways if you like to challenge yourself. Making the difficult decision merely a beginning of that process. The…


The gravitational force exists in everything in the universe. Bigger the things, the bigger the gravity. The closer the objects to each other, the stronger the gravitational pull, and of course the more distance means weaker gravity.

Don’t worry this is not a science article. I wanted to write a small description of gravity because it's related to the topic that I am going to break down.

Now,

we are all doing things, think about doing things and we feel about the things we have had or going to have. They all have certain gravitational forces. The only thing is…


Such a Rollercoaster year this year was right? With Goods and Bads, Ups and Downs. We endured we fought through and we adapted to new conditions. Despite all, we still went on and on. We have experienced a lot this year. In a lof ways, we all showed a lot of kindness and goodness in my opinion. We all supported people, communities, small businesses, pressing issues. Social media, through donations, through word of mouth. No matter how big or how small, we did it.

It's also a reminder to us that time is something we don't have.

Now that we…


I find it fascinating how a word can hold so many meanings, thoughts, preparations, and intentions inside it. Marathon is a 42 km or 26,2 Mile run. It requires an extensive workout and diet plan in order to participate and complete it. We can use the word “Marathon” for other concepts as well. It can be used after we accomplish some of the things we pursue, when we experience a minor delay or a setback during the road, or when we decide to change the plan and go for something completely different. …

Alican Gulal

I Like to do research and write about motivational topics.

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